Thursday, January 29, 2015

7 Habits that can make you a success


Book Review: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Group success is helped when the members begin using the same language. Dr. Stephen R. Covey has given us a language that will help move the group toward success. This best selling book has been very useful in helping establish work groups. While the title of the book  is The 7 Habbits of Highly Effective People, they can  also apply to Teams. [See my blog on Team Development].

This book has been used in various contexts including youth development and leader development. This books will be a valuable tool in your tool box.

These habits are live changing:

1. Be Proactive - don't wait for things to happen, make things happen.

2. Begin with the end in mind - make a plan and work the plan.

3. Put first things first - prioritize your efforts and focus on them.

4. Think win win - remember that we are all in this together.

5. Seek first to understand, then to be understood - let others know that you value their input - we need each other.

6. Synergize - we need others strengths to balance our weaknesses.

7. Sharpen the saw - Continually renew the physical, spiritual, mental, social, and emotional parts of our nature.

Covey's follow-up book  gives us an eighth habit of effective people that can also be adapted to teams.

8. Discover your voice and inspire others to discover theirs - voice is a person's unique personal significance that lies at the intersection of our talent, passion, need, and conscience.

Covey is a true scholar and there is much more in these books than the habits of effective people. Both books would be a great addition to any development library.

  • Covey, S. (2004). 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Kindle ed.), NY: Rosetta Book.
  • Covey S. (2004). The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness. NY: Free Press.


What are among your "must reads"?

Leave me a comment below on these books or your favorite.








Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Empowering Others



I have been doing research on power and empowerment and I want to hear from you. 

Please answer these questions:

1. In what ways do you feel you have POWER over your life and circumstances?

2. In what ways do you feel POWERLESS over your life and circumstances?

3. What would need to happen to give you more POWER over your life and circumstances?

4. In what ways can you EMPOWER others?

5. Tell how someone has EMPOWERED you.

Please copy and paste these questions in the comments box below or if you don't want your response seen, email them to jimbayes4@gmail.com.

Thank you,

Your responses will help in the material I am preparing for a Model of Empowerment.

The Born Leader Myth




A few years ago, I had a conversation with the Superintendent of a public school district. We were discussing leadership and youth leadership development. During our conversation he made the remark, "I suppose that you are going to tell me that leaders are made and not born?" After I responded affirmatively, he asserted that leaders were mainly born--not developed. His proof was the elementary school playground. As he explained how some boys and girls seem to attract others to them, I had a vision from my own elementary days of Freddy strutting through the playground at recess with a group of guys following him. This personal memory seemed to be evidence for the Superintendent's assertion for "born leaders." Upon reflection, I remembered that Freddy was older than us by a few years because he had been held back. There may be other explanations of this leader attraction than innate leadership qualities. We all have observed certain people who, for some reason, attract others who want to follow and/or emulate them. But are Freddy and these others born leaders?

Early research into leadership focused on the leader. It was presumed that some individuals were born with certain traits that made them great leaders. This is refereed to as the "great man" theory. After World War II, there was a deep and growing interest in leadership research. Leadership research has grown to include research on leadership skills, leadership styles, leadership situations, and the development of leadership theories such as contingency theories, the path-goal theory, Leader-member exchange, Transformational leadership theory, Servant Leadership, Spiritual Leadership, and more. Even with all of the recent leadership research, the question "are leaders born or made" is still asked.

Serious study into leadership traits has been credited to two studies done by R. M. Stogdill (1948 & 1974). In the first study Stogdill found that the leadership situation is an important factor and that a leader does not become a leader just because he has certain traits. His second study found that while the situation was important, traits are an important part of leadership. R. D. Mann similarly reported that the evidence gives impetus to the situational approach to leadership maintaining that leadership is created through the interaction of individuals. Leadership is a function of the task, composition, and culture of the group. I have often asked groups if they thought that U. S. Grant was a born leader. Most of the respondents say yes (probably based on his leadership during the Civil War). Most war generals are seen as strong leaders and probably "born leaders" (George Washington, Dwight Eisenhower, Colin Powell for example). If you were to ask the same group if Grant was a good president, they almost unanimously say no. This is anecdotal proof that the situation is an important factor in leadership. Leadership ability is not necessarily transferable from one context to another indicating that there are more variables in determining leadership that just a genetic leadership ability.

The difficulty with the trait approach to leadership is in identifying the trait or traits that leaders have in common. In an effort to identify these traits, using meta-analysis, some researchers found that intelligence, masculinity, and dominance were significantly related to how leaders were perceived. Judge, Bono, Ilies, and Gerhardt (2002) developed a chart listing some twenty-one possible traits for emergent or effective leaders from ten separate sources. Kirkpatrick and Locke (1991) determined that leadership traits do matter and identified six traits that leaders have that differ from non-leaders: drive, desire to lead, honesty/integrity, self-confidence, cognitive ability, and knowledge (specifically of business). However, they state that these traits only endow people with the potential for leadership. Additional factors, such as leadership situations, determine effective leadership. Individuals can be born with these traits, they can learn them, or both (Northouse, 2007). Yukl (2010) writes that considerable evidence shows that traits are jointly determined by learning and the inherited tendency to gain satisfaction from particular stimuli or experiences. Some traits, such as values and social needs, are more influenced by learning than others such as temperament and physiological needs. The researcher is left to answer the question of what trait or traits are inherent in the leader themselves and which traits can be learned and developed.

The consensus today seems to be that while some people possess traits and characteristics that are more conducive to good leadership, most of what is considered "leadership" is developed. An army officer once wrote that they could not wait around to identify born leaders--they must develop men and women into leaders. This directly applies to churches today. Many churches lack competent leadership although they may have good pastors. Leadership development is lacking in most churches today. Like the military, churches cannot wait around for "born leaders" to emerge; they must be trained and developed.

Sources:
  • Judge, T. A., Bono, J. E., Ilies, R., & Gerhardt, M. (2002). Personality and leadership: A qualitative and quantitative review. Journal of Applied Psychology, 87, 765-780.
  • Kirkpartic, S. A. & Locke, I. A. (1991). Leadership: Do traits matter? The Executive, 5, 48-60.
  • Mann, R. D. (1959). A review of the relationship between personality and performance in small groups. Psychology Today, 56, 241-270.
  • Horthouse, P. G. (2007). Leadership: Theory and practice (4th ed.), Thousand Oaks, CA: SAGE Publishing.
  • Yukl, G. (2010). Leadership in organizations (7th ed., Kindle ed.), Retrieved from Amazon.com.


I want your input!!
  1. Do you believe that leaders are born?
  2. Do you believe that leaders are developed?
  3. Do you believe that they are both born and developed?


....post a comment below...





Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Learn With Me

I worked for Zola Levitt Ministries for about a year. I have always had a respect and had an interest in our Jewish roots and valued the time working for Zola. It was a great opportunity to be around the ministry and to learn from a very great teacher. I have also had friends and family that have gotten into the Messianic Jewish movement. One thing that I have noticed is their zeal for the Old Testament--the Torah in particular. Though I sometimes  feel their zeal goes too far, I have always been a seeker of the truth and want to be open to anything God is doing and want to learn more myself. 

This book by D. Thomas Lancaster titled Elementary Principles, has been suggested to me as a must read. I plan to get and read this book.

Please join me in reading this book. I plan to blog about this book after reading it and hope to start a conversation regarding the Jewish roots of Christianity.

Also, if you have a "must read" pertaining to the Jewish roots of Christianity or the Messianic Christian Movement, please leave me the title and author in the comments box below.

More information on "Elementary Principles" can be found here: BooK


Monday, January 26, 2015

Is "doing church" too complicated?

I have found few books more helpful than "Simple Church" (by Thom S. Rainer and Eric Geiger) for helping churches stay on track. I suppose that when I was pastoring I felt that ministry should be complicated to be successful. I didn't consciously say this to myself, but I sure went about pastoring like it was complicated. After reading this book, I  admit that I was guilty of making ministry more complicated than it should be. 

The message of this book is "simple" yet profound. Simple is in. Complex is out. That mantra keeps running over and over in my mind as I coach pastors. It is something that all church workers should be aware of.
Simple Church is defined as a congregation designed around a straightforward and strategic process that moves people through the stages of spiritual growth.
The process is simple:

Clarity  >>> Movement >>> Alignment >>> Focus

"Focus" is the area that I struggled with while I was pastoring. Focus is the commitment to abandon everything that falls outside of the simple ministry process. Leaders tend to get involved in many things that pull them away from the ministry in which they were called to do. 

"Simple Church" is an easy and straightforward read and is worth adding to any church worker's tool box.

Rainer, Thom S. & Geiger, Eric. (2006) Simple Church (Kindle ed.) Nashville, TN: B&H Publishing group.

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Sunday, January 25, 2015

The Size of the Dog in the Fight

Mark Twain said something like, "What matters is not the size of the dog in the fight, but the size of the fight in the dog." There is a lot of wisdom in them there words. This is important to remember in a "bigger is better" culture that we live in (especially here in Texas). This is also true when it comes to churches. A bigger church does not mean it's better.

Churches of more than two thousand average attendees represent less than half of one percent of all churches in America. Yet, these mega-churches are often held up to be the models of ministry for all churches. I received an invitation by email to attend a church leadership  meeting sponsored by the Leadership Network (http://leadnet.org). I went online to register for the event only to find out that I could only attend the meeting if I directly worked with a church that averages over 1000 in attendance). Excluding those of us that work with churches of smaller sizes is an indication of how small churches are undervalued and underestimated.

Large churches enjoy the benefits of having more resources, but smaller churches have strategic advantages in the areas of authenticity, discipleship, evangelism, leanness, inter-generational ministry and leadership development. By their nature, small churches are more intimate and developing a sense of community comes more naturally. To capture some of the benefits of small churches, some mega-churches have opened up satellite churches.This "multi-site" approach has become more popular for mega-churches than building larger buildings to house all of their congregation under one roof. The multi-site approach enjoys the resources of a mega-church and the advantages of smaller congregations.

Data that supports the theory of a small church advantage is largely anecdotal because these advantages are harder to quantify. However, the qualitative data is present in the stories of thousands attending small churches. Although, there may not be sufficient data for me to proclaim here that small churches have significant advantages over large churches, I can say without hesitation that being small in size does not have to be a hindrance. The strongest endorsement of small over large church sizes is in the very real effort of large churches trying to emulate the the small church experience through small groups.

If you are aware of quantifiable research in the area of this discussion, I would be interested in examining it. 

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